Getting Known
"What we do not make conscious emerges later as fate." —C.G. Jung As social animals, we long to be known in relationship. Getting known in relationship allows us to feel safe, important, and loved, and it allows us to return the favor to others. If in our relationship with our primary caretakers the generosity of the love we received encouraged a progressively fuller expression of Self, then our fear of getting known in a significant relationship is minimal: we show up in o
